Gatekeeping someone else’s husband

Situation: Friend of mine called in righteous indignation over her close friend staying in touch with an almost/sometimes/maybe ex. Her sense of betrayal stemmed from the comraderie and familiarity her ex seemed to have while reminiscing of the interaction.

My assessment: Our exes where once the closest person we bared our fears and souls to. Some learnt our triggers and enjoy to push them just as we enjoy pushing theirs. How accurate is the depiction of this/these encounters? Knowing your person, are they prone to drawing the longbow through embellishment to pad their feelings of grandeur? Do they like to dance the tango of your feelings for entertainment?

Most importantly, why are you gatekeeping that woman’s husband?!?!?!

Conclusion: The audacity of gate keeping humans!!! Sacré bleu!

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